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Is it weird for a straight girl to a have a lesbian obsession with a celebrity? Kristen Stewart is all i think about. i'm in love with her ever since i saw twilight and i even masterbate to her. but i'm straight. confused. :( | yeah, i was the same about keira knightley (still am) but i have stopped lying to myself and admitted im bi.
but its totally natural and okay to have girl crush, nothing wrong with appreciating beauty, whether it be male or female. | How do I get over my Kristen Stewart lesbian obsession? friends and family are starting to tell me that it's unhealthy, but i don't know how to get over it. i'm straight, but i want kristen stewart so badly that i can't think about anything else!! | | start obsessing over hot male celebrities hha | Nofx lesbian obsession? Do any lesbians or bi women like or know and have heard of these nofx songs:
Liza and Louise
Liza
Louise
Do you think that they're one man's point of view and sterotyping about lesbians or two girls together and how hot it is? Or is it something else? Thoughts...
Personally I think the music sounds good and I don't mind playing the songs on bass guitar (Liza has really cool bass line) but the lyrics sometimes just make me laugh and not usually in a positive way. | I think it's just comedy. Putting a sophomoric spin on a typical heterosexual male obsession.
But I know that Kathleen Hannah from Bikini Kill absolutely hates Fat Mike from NOFX and has accused him of being a misogynist, to which he's responded with typical raw/rude jokes and the song "Kill Rockstars." | I've written a short six-chapter gay/lesbian novelette about teen love, homosexuality and obsession? I would greatly appreciate anyone who could take the time to read it and post me some feedback below:
www.booksie.com/gay_and_lesbian/short_story/theunamedteenauther/unrequited-hate | its good. there are some grammatical errors but they're probably typos.
it was interesting. the end was really good, but the beginning was a bit jumpy and didn't really flow smoothly - it was as if everything was trying to hard to seem natural. it was hard to really get into it.
the fact that its so short slightly ruins the ending, because it seems as if you're working with a limit, and trying to fit in the explanation to the story in a short space. it would be better if there was more elaboration when it came to saf's mental disorder.
other than that it was really good. i'd like to read more of your stuff! | I'm a lesbian, and I have a jealous obsession with this straight male? I'm a high-school female, who is a lesbian as of current (I only say this because there is a possibility of transsexualism within me, and I'm very confused at this point).
There is this guy at my school, who is a few years older than I. I do not fantasize nor wish to be with him in any way, but he is a very good-looking young man, he's smart, he's about 16, he's cool, he's funny, he's Caucasian, he's athletic, he's happy, he's a junior, and he's got a LOT of girls on his arm. Everyone likes him. He's got tons of friends and he's got a job at the coolest store at the mall, that I've always wanted.
On the other hand, I'm the complete opposite of him. I'm depressed as well as withholding a few other emotional/personality disorders, I'm falling behind, I'm gay, I'm ugly, I'm non-Caucasian, I'm a freshman (this year will never end), I'm a young guy, I have an odd and unattractive body type, I'm not athletic, I loathe my body (why did I have to be made a GIRL?), I'm bullied, I haven't a friend in the world, I dread my home life as much as school, amongst many other issues.
I sit here and obsessively envy this male for everything he has. I don't know. I just constantly sit here and think about him, think about how good his life must be, and how I would kill to have one-tenth of his attributes. I practically break down every time I see him in anger. Sometimes, I'll dream of being in his body. At other times, I feel like maiming the boy.
I have no idea what to do about this. I feel this way about every straight, white, good-looking, well-off guy I see, but never as much as I do him. I hate how I'm always so JEALOUS.
Sometimes, I'll think, "Well, he must have some bad aspects of his life; maybe I should be careful of what I wish for." But these thoughts are drowned out by my obsession.
I've been on break, and I've been laying here like a lump for the past two weeks. I'm terrified of going back to school for many reasons. I've been purposely depriving myself of nutrition and sunlight. I feel too ugly to go anywhere, and I refuse to leave the house, let alone my bed. I'd really prefer death at this point. These past two weeks have gone by so slowly; I feel as though time has stopped.
But I just want to know a good mindset one of you guys can expose to me so I stop being jealous of this guy, and so I stop thinking about him so much. | | You need to remember things aren't always what they seem. Everyone is messed up in one way or another, just because someone seems happy or has the "perfect life" from the outside does not mean its true. Everyone is unhappy in some way and everyone has some major thing wrong in there lives. I was friends with a guy for over a year and had no idea he had major depression and was suicidal alot of the time, one of my other friends was raped for years and we had no idea. Who knows maybe one of his parents is an alcoholic or he has an unstable household or maybe he's secretly depressed himself. From my experience everyone is a little messed up, its horrible but its an equalizer. | Why do i have an obsession to be best friends with this girl? I'm friends with her but like I want to be best friends with her. All I want to do is text her or IM her. I am always. wonderingg what she is doing and I try to ask myself why ithink abouther all the time, and I'm not a lesbian. Its an obsession. Please help, I just want tobe able to be friends with her without having an obsession | | Your obsession is homosocial not homosexual, thus not question about your sexuality. Go for it, urge of being bestmate is wonderful [as long as the person is interested to allow you to be closest to her], just be nice, honest, loving and kind, and free as butterfly. She will love to have such charming bestmate. | What in your opinion is the root cause of mens obsession with lesbians? not saying that i'm obsessed but i know a lot of men that go wild when they come around | Simple math- if one girl is good, then two girls is twice as good!
Then add in on top of that the taboo quality of it, the "othering" of lesbians (perceiving them as different from other women), buying into myths like them being vaginally tighter or that women more intimately know how to please women, the allure of wanting what you can't have, the so-called "virgin appeal", the challenge they represent in terms of "converting them", the way they validate men's sexuality by sharing the same object of desire, and the role of the media in promoting male fascination with lesbians as normal, natural, and good.
Mix it all up together, and you've got lesbo obsession. |
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