Spiritually Speaking, is it a sin for men to dress up in women's lingerie? I don't believe in the whole concept of 'sin'. BUT---I have to wonder on how some Christians feel about men who wear women's lingerie and get off on it....?
I personally think it's cute. I wonder if I will ever come home from work to find my husband trying on my stuff...XD |
| Yes,it is weird. A sin is a breach of morality when you hurt yourself or others and so if this is the case scenario it is a sin. |
What is it about silky lingerie that drives men to cross dress? As a girl I agree that our clothing can have a sensual silky feel and it was designed to make us feel sexy, good about ourselves and attractive to men. Could there be something missing in a relationship? |
Most men don't want to wear women's lingerie. It makes them cry. Its considered a horrible form of torture. However, there are some men, about 10%, who enjoy it. And they are not gay.
They enjoy it because their brain is hard-wired to release dopamine and other neurotransmitters when they feminize themselves. Its like their brain interprets cross-dressing as actual contact with a female. The neurotransmitters produce sensations of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. They can't stop their brain from releasing these neurotransmitters, so they feel as if they need to cross-dress. |
Do women like to dress men in their lingerie? in the bedroom |
| WHY THE HELL WOULD WOMEN WANT TO DRESS MEN IN THEIR LINGERIE? WHY? YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!! |
Why are so many women against letting their men try on dresses, or stockings, or lingerie are they scared we? might look better than them in them ?
Or that we will find out that they are really fun and comfortable to wear and that you have been lying to us all this time? |
I wouldn't have a problem if my boyfriend wore a dress, stockings, and/or lingerie. If it's his thing, it's his thing and If I really cared about him I would except it and try to understand it. I dated a guy back in high school who liked to wear bras and skirts and I was totally okay with it. I found his secret interesting and was intrigued by it.
Some of our clothing is comfortable, but I can assure that a lot of it isn't as comfortable as it looks. It's all fun to wear though--mostly. |
I found my boyfriend has sent pictures of himself dressed in womens lingerie to other men...is he bi? My boyfriend, 52, and I have been together for 9 years...not living together, tho. I recently discovered 2 pictures of him that he sent to another man. I have search the computer...in fact I've got a monitor on it anytime he gets on and haven't found that he is doing this currently or meeting with men. He says he was going through a funk awhile back and it was just for kicks to get a reaction.
What am I dealing with? He has never giving any indication that he likes men. I've research this and oh man, there are sooo many men looking for men and women...it is crazy!!! This is an area I am not familar in. |
Well I'd say that it holds some form of fascination to him. Maybe too he's been getting a response from doing this. It's no different then if a woman was doing it just because of vanity.
If your not truley wierded out by his dressing habits. And you feel that you could go deeper into him dressing pretty for you. Then maybe you should push him further like into a dress and act like a man to him. So men fantisize about there females counterparts taking control in the bedroom.
Think of it this way. He's in touch with his feminine side. That works to your advantage as then he'll be more eager to pleasing your needs and not so much into pleasing his own. Try to think about the possitive side of this before you let your mind run wildly into the wrong direction. |
Do any women like to dress their men up in lingerie? I have had a pantyhose fetish ever since I was a young boy. I wish I could out in words the level of enjoyment I get from them. As time went by I have discovered other articles of lingerie I enjoy. Im a straight male, but obviously it is hard to find a woman who likes this kind of thing. To make things even more challenging, I have recently discovered that I'm actually a submissive wherever my fetish is concerned. I have a lot of passion regarding this, but for obvious reasons, it scares most women away. I generally reveal this with women I meet online because it is easier and the rejection cuts a little less deeply. I guess Im just wondering if anyone has ever had any experience with this and if you have advice for a guy like me who wants to find a special friend to find this freedom with. Please leave your hurtful comments o yourself... Ive heard it all, trust me. Im just looking for intelligent and helpful advice. Please feel free to IM me regarding this if you're interested in exchanging ideas (but nobody under 18 please, as this topic is the mature side). Thanks for reading! :) |
I am trying to be helpful, but you need to understand basic sociological dynamics between male-female attraction.
Women are valued for their beauty and their motherly virtues. That's why women try so hard to look good. That is how they are given value by society. When she is attractive she will get positive attention and people will want her company. Women are also expected to be nurturing, hard-working, and prepare a home comfortable for raising a family.
Women need a man to hold them and treasure them. Women are attracted to a man who can make them feel protected and secure. Women need to love a man they can respect and honor.
Men compete with each other for dominance and power. The tall man is valued over the short man. The rich man is valued over the poor man. The strong man is valued and considered sexy, while the weak man is considered undesirable. Nice guys and pretty guys are lesser considerations. What is important is power and how it is used. The man should display noble character. Just think of our super heroes. That is the ideal image of the man. Noble character means society honors the man with power who defends the weak, heals the injured, protects the women and guyren, and sacrifices himself for his country, his community and his family. That is who you are expected to be to attract women.
You are nurturing a fetish. You are using objects as a substitute for human intimacy. Furthermore your brain is conditioned to release dopamine and other neurotransmitters when you feminize yourself. These neurotransmitters affect the reward centers of your brain and produce sensations of gratification. You cannot stop your brain from releasing these neurotransmitters so it mimics the addiction response. So how can you expect women to respect and honor you for this hobby? |